Kuori [she/her]

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Cake day: 2020年10月8日

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  • cw medical stuff, bottom surgery

    Bolster and catheter removed and oh my GOD do I feel so much better. Definitely still painful but more in the realm of severe bruising instead of feeling like I had an 8 inch needle jammed squarely into my vag. There are occasional moments of being acutely (painfully) aware of the “inversion” aspect of the procedure and some weird brain-body disconnect when touching the area but hoo boy am I excited to start a more active phase of recovery.

    Thanks to everyone who offered words of celebration btw, I appreciated them all even if things were really too hectic to get back to everyone. catgirl-heart


  • i mean, yes? is it really flagrantly immoral if (actually) consenting adults agree to participate in an activity together? like sure if someone on the street stabbed me out of nowhere I’d be pretty put out but i would consider that categorically different than asking my partner to carve her name into my thigh with a razor blade bc it gets me going even though their actions (cutting my skin) and the outcome (me being wounded) are functionally identical

    not all violence is created equal. we can understand this outside the purview of kink (violence against the workers bad, violence against the ownership class good) so I don’t really see why we should struggle with it here