SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net to menby@hexbear.netEnglish · 4 days ago

[Serious Question] Do most men just have ED now, is it really common in younger folks?

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[Serious Question] Do most men just have ED now, is it really common in younger folks?

SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net to menby@hexbear.netEnglish · 4 days ago

I ask this because an nsfw blog I follow on tumbr (not linking for opsec) in their bio explains how they have ED, and wow I was surprised they were so open about it, given that men with the condition are often the butt of rude jokes. Anyway every like 3rd or 4th commercial on tv is for ED meds. So I’m wondering if this is still a problem for older or sick men, or are younger guys also experiencing symptoms?

Please no jokes about the condition or belittling those that have it and are problemed by it. Yeah yeah volcel police.

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hasn’t ever been a problem for me or any penis-having friends i know of either.

I don’t think people like to talk about. Even admitting it to their doctors is a major hurdle for most people

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