BountifulEggnog [she/her]

Autistic, newly hatched trans girl i-spil-my-jice

Love to talk, feel free to DM here or on matrix.

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Joined 2 years ago
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Cake day: June 30th, 2023

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  • I live at home too, with a job. No bills and it’s not an issue for me to send it. Hiding isnt ideal obviously but eh, idk. I’m hiding too. If they’re supportive anyway and eventually you have to tell them your on hormones it’s probably not that big of a deal. Like obviously they’re going to want you to do it officially but if you tell them you just couldn’t wait any longer might not be too bad. Unless they’re super nosey hiding isn’t terrible. If you have a good friend it could stay at their house too/shipped there.

    That’s fair and my biggest concern too. I don’t know where you live but I’ve heard mostly good things from people in the west about telling their endos they diy. A lot of trans people have at some point.

    My other big concern, both for you and myself, is not wanting to wait and have things continue to masculinize. Especially since it sounds like you’re young. I’ve heard horror stories of people strung along like 13-20s and it’s just heartbreaking to me. But it’s up to you, obviously you know the risks, just wanting you to have your options. Balancing everything is really tough and I really get that, being in a somewhat similar boat (although I’m probably older and probably have less supportive parents). I think you’re being reasonable, just please don’t let them keep you on a list for too long. I see in another comment you said it might only be a few months.