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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • Grow enough confidence to wear mismatch socks. The big Socks Must Match industry steals minutes of ppls life’s each year by peer pressuring individuals into believing that socks must match. I promise you socks still work mismatched.

    With the time I save each year I can shitpost on lemmy



  • I think popcorn ceilings are nice sometimes. I wouldn’t want it in every room, but I’ve had it in my bedroom. It was nice sometimes laying there staring up at the popcorn ceiling trying to find faces or whatever I could. My wife found a lovely pair of testicles in the popcorn at our old place. I can honestly say we miss those popcorn testicles 🥲 Popcorn ceilings are more interesting to look at than plain flat white ceilings which is probably 97% of all residential ceilings. #LeavePopcornCeilingsAlone!!



  • “I don’t get why the other commenters are defending OF creators as sex work when they are clearly financially benefiting from isolation to create parasocial relationships for sex as opposed to having those same people have the time for actual relationships.”

    “Financially benefiting from isolation” like video games? Or alcohol companies? Maybe gambling? Or like almost any company that uses advertising?? FOMO is a thing outside OF.

    It’s on individual if you are spending too much time on OF to have actual relationships that is the fault of the individual. OF creaters aren’t mind controlling ppl. No offense but this smells almost incelish.


  • You’re not a mind reader. If they wanted to go to bed earlier cuz they got up early they should have told you that. Being a little late doesn’t justify their reaction in my opinion. If they want you home by x time they need to clearly request that. Even if they request that it doesn’t mean you have to agree. They shouldn’t be setting a curfew for you, imo.

    Yeah maybe you should ask what your partner wanted, either dishes or sleep. But again you’re not a mind reminder. I would say it’s more of them to tell you clearly what they want. In this case if they wanted you to do dishes or go to bed early.

    Overall your partner doesn’t sound like they are communicating healthly.